Some of the hardest moments in life are when you must say goodbye, yet we all experience those times.  Sometimes it is due to a new job or a move,and other times to an end in a relationship or death.  No matter what the reason, it’s never easy.  People were made to be in relationships, so it makes sense that goodbyes are difficult.  Sometimes it hurts a little, and other times it seems to tear a piece of your heart out and break something inside of you.  When it hurts that much, you know you were given a precious gift of great love.  This doesn’t make it any easier, but it is good to acknowledge the gift of the time you had together and to remember that love.

There’s a saying that time heals all things.  Time heals many things and makes others more bearable, but I do not believe it heals all things.  Somethings will always hurt but time will help.  Celebrate your time together, but also take time to grieve your loss.  Take the time you need, but try not to isolate yourself- remember, people are made to be in relationship.

If you know in advance that your time together is ending, spend time together, tell him or her how you feel, make memories or tell stories, and enjoy the time you have left.  If your loved one is sick or dying, take time to be present when you’re able.  This time and your presence is a gift.  When you’re not able to be there, remember God is present.    

Finally, after all is said and done, remember that you are never alone; there is One who is always with you and who loves you unconditionally.  Lean on the Father and tell God how you’re feeling.  God will hold you and surround you in God’s love.  Although you may still be hurting, love (like time) does help to heal.  Read Acts 20:36-38, and remember: God loves YOU unconditionally!

Annie