Lutherans are not known for their outspoken evangelism.  We tend to be a quiet group who believe actions speak louder than words, and have, on occasion, been accused of being “closed” off and uninviting.  I have heard people say things like, “I was curious about the Lutheran Church and would have gone to worship with my neighbor, but they never invited me to come.”  Perhaps actions do speak louder than words, but there are times when words may also be necessary.  An invitation can be perceived as welcoming.  An explanation can help clarify why we do things the way we do.

If you’re like most Lutherans I’ve talked to, you are concerned about coming across as pushy or intrusive, or worried you will turn neighbors, friends or family members away if you say too much.  We’ve all heard the person yelling on the street corner and none of us wants to be associated with that kind of impersonal evangelism.  I believe that’s the key– evangelism must come from the heart and in relationship.  It should be personal.  Oftentimes, it can be acts of love and our lifestyle, but if you’re looking for creative and intentional evangelism opportunities for children and grandchildren, I have a few ideas– some shared by friends and others I have tried over the years.

Start a new tradition of sharing what you’re thankful for at Thanksgiving Dinner.  Advent is right around the corner.  Consider giving an advent calendar as a gift.  This may open up an opportunity to talk about what advent is.  Say grace together at mealtime.  When you grab a bedtime book, choose a Christian story, or choose a classic book such as “Runaway Bunny,” which sounds remarkably like Psalm 139, and end the book saying, “God is like that.” Give your child or grandchild a bedtime or morning blessing each day, mark their forehead with a cross, and seal it with a kiss.  Carefully choose the right moment to give your child or grandchild an object lesson about grace and forgiveness– I’m certain they will present you with an opportunity before too long.  Prominently display a nativity set in your house and add characters as the season unfolds. Hopefully this will spark your imagination and you’ll think of a few more ideas.  Feel free to share them!

Read Psalm 139:7-18, and remember: God loves YOU unconditionally!

Annie

Today’s Reading: https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Psalm+139%3A7-18&version=NRSV