Fifty-seven years ago today, I delivered my first child, a son. What an experience! What did I know about being a parent? Absolutely nothing. But, with the help of God we managed, and he grew. There were bumps in the road, but I am so proud of the man he has become. For that I give God the glory. It was surely not the naïve young parents who brought him into the world.
Eighty-three years ago this summer my mother delivered her first child, a daughter, me. What an experience that must have been for her! What did she know about being a parent? Probably very little. Yet so many times I was critical of her decisions, her choices, her parenting. Was she perfect? No. Was I perfect? Far from it. Yet it was so easy to judge rather than forgive. My love for her deepened as I truly forgave what I perceived as her imperfections, and I hope that she forgave mine.
As Paul says in Ephesians 4:32, “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.”
God’s unconditional love for you and for me is such a precious gift. Let us share it generously.
Judy
