Did you ever go home with a black eye?   What was the reaction?  Why were you fighting?  Or how does the other guy look (ha ha)?

There’s something about a black eye that elicits different reactions than other scrapes, bruises and infirmities.  I’ve come to church in recent months with a bevy of incapacities: wheelchair, walker, arm in sling, and now cane.  But the Sunday I had two prominent black eyes, I stayed home.  I was too self-conscious.  And no, I was not in a fight, it was the result of some minor surgery.

Are there other situations which make us too self-conscious to be in church?  Perhaps we’re grieving and self-conscious about crying through the service.  Perhaps our color doesn’t match the majority of those in attendance, are we uncomfortable about standing out?  Or do we not dress in clothing similar to our idea of “churchgoers.”  Any of these could be our “black eye” for the day.

Our Lord Jesus had a different idea about who was welcome. In Matthew 11:28, Jesus extends a universal invitation: “Come to Me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” This call is not limited by ethnicity, social status, or past sins, but is open to all who seek Him. This call is not limited to physical infirmities, race, or outward appearance.  Jesus said “ALL.”   No “black eye” precludes coming to him.

What does this mean?   Yes, come no matter what.  But also, welcome all who come.  That means a warm welcome that is oblivious to differences.  How do we measure up?  Do we let our “black eyes” cause us embarrassment?  Do we let other’s differences get in the way of a sincere welcome?  Think about it, I know I will.

May the Lord who offers unconditional love to all, bless you with perfect peace.

Judy