I remember in the mid-60’s when I was 9-10 years old practicing a choreographed dance for a talent show with a group of girls. I was struggling with learning the steps and one of the adults working with us told me I probably shouldn’t be in the act since I couldn’t dance very well. While this wasn’t really a big issue in the vast scheme of things, I was crushed. That stayed with me for the next ten years and I had a paralyzing fear of dancing in any musical production I was in. It took me until I was in a college musical production where I finally came to grips with this and discovered while I wasn’t Ginger Rodgers, I wasn’t that bad.

As I was deciding on a blog idea for this week, I ran across Proverbs 16:24 and it immediately took me back to that time.  The verse reads Kind words are like honey- sweet to the soul and healthy for the body.

This simple, yet powerful truth reminds us of the weight our words carry and the blessings they can bring. On the other hand, harsh words and criticism can do emotional damage. This verse reminds us to be intentional with our speech…to build up and not tear down.

We live in a world where condemnation is front and center in school, workplaces, social media and even in our homes. These words can cut deeply and stay with us for a long time. Remember a gentle word can calm a storm, offer hope, and restore someone’s confidence when they feel small.

We should practice using gracious words daily by speaking kindly, offering sincere compliments, being grateful for what we have and encouraging others if they are struggling. Our speech can reflect God’s unconditional love for us. Let the Holy Spirit guide our tongues to bring sweetness like honey to the souls around us. Thanks be to God!

Patty