Author Archives: joyocala

Every now and then my wife, Paulette, will say to me, “You men are all clueless.” She will have a slight smile on her face, and it’s usually in response to something less than wise that I, or some other … Continue reading →

Best Friend Forever. Of all the titles or names for him, this one might just suit us the best. But there is nothing personal or private in that reference. One of my criticisms about charismatic, contemporary Christianity is the notion … Continue reading →

As I write this, I’m hoping that by July 1st my garden will be yielding bright and juicy tomatoes. I know the Farmers Markets will overflow with fresh produce. ‘Tis the bounty of the season. Thoughts about gardening remind me … Continue reading →

Have you pictured the Garden of Eden and what transpired there? Did God’s voice boom from the clouds? When the prophets heard God speak was it within their mind, or was it audible and ground shaking? I’ve stumbled and had … Continue reading →

I just read a Facebook post that I’ll credit for today’s inspiration: “It’s easy to spot a yellow car when you are always thinking of a yellow car. It’s easy to spot an opportunity when you are always thinking of … Continue reading →

The story of Lazarus and the rich man is such a vivid lesson in how I should treat my fellow travelers in this life. I have always felt sad for the rich man with his fine clothes and hearty meals … Continue reading →

It’s six months since I wrote last week’s blog about my neglect of my prayer life. Since I believe the spiritual life has to be intentional, I took steps to remedy my lax ways. In February I went off on … Continue reading →

I have a number of pet peeves, and as I’ve grown older I seem to have even more. I’m turning into an old curmudgeon. Here are a few of them. (1) I am amazed, and bothered, by all the people … Continue reading →

In my life there have been plenty. Here is just a blog-worthy sampling: Art the Fart, Arthur Fonzarelli, Art Fleming, Arthur-itis, Author, Artie-Baby, Artoo-Detoo (Star Wars fans get that). Who hasn’t been called names? We name things and give alternative … Continue reading →

We just enjoyed a few days of “family reunion” time. Yes, it was wonderful. Now I’m enjoying the pictures – the smiles, the silliness, the togetherness. Of course I have the memories, but somehow in my golden years of “memory”, … Continue reading →